Common Sense, Isn't So Common!
So what am I talking about here? How about some basic courtesies that in theory should go without saying; but unfortunately need repeating and/or clarifying. A very candid take on the subject of Spa Etiquette....
So what am I talking about here? How about some basic courtesies that in theory should go without saying; but unfortunately need repeating and/or clarifying. A very candid take on the subject of Spa Etiquette....
- First time visit:
- It's your first visit to the spa/clinic/retreat - It could even be your first Massage EVER! But whatever the case, please arrive early to fill in necessary and confidential information that will give your therapist the information they need to customise your massage.
- If you arrive late, you will be shorting yourself valuable massage time as the therapist will have other clients after you.
- Be courteous to your therapist and their time as well as the time of others who are booked after you!
- Cancellations:
- Most spas will request 24 hours notice to cancel your appointment.
- Why? Well, they have set aside that time just for you! Your therapist has been scheduled for that time and if you do not show up or call last minute to cancel; your therapist will not get paid! Which is why in most cases you will be charged for missing your appointment; this covers the therapist's wages. We are paid on commission. Most spas will make an exception for emergencies, but if you can't manage your time; it's best not to book in advance and call the spa last minute to see if they have available openings.
- Last minute cancellations are not cool! You are screwing a therapist out of their wages and you are taking up an appointment that could have been given to another client.
- Health & Hygiene:
- Pretty straightforward huh? You'd think............
- Okay, I don't want to work on your ' FUNK' anymore than you want to smell mine when you're receiving massage.
- This is your downtime, your relaxing time, your sacred "I'm taking care of me." time! Have a little respect for your therapist as well as yourself!
- I promise to bathe, deodorize and even brush my teeth and hair before I meet you for your appointment. I promise to use mouthwash and not eat garlic bruschetta just before your appointment.
- As for Health: Um, if you are hacking up a lung, vomiting or running a high fever - you should be visiting a Dr. -NOT your massage therapist! Any spa worth your money and time will not charge you if it's a less than 24 hour cancellation, but call and reschedule your appointment ASAP!
- Contraindications:
- If you are taking blood thinners, pain medications, high/low blood pressure, currently receiving chemotherapy, or have sustained an injury - TELL YOUR THERAPIST! In some cases Deep Tissue massage will be a contraindication and could make you worse! This is why you fill in an intake form!
- If you are pregnant or think you may be pregnant - TELL YOUR THERAPIST! A lot of spas have protocols about working with pregnancies! Most will recommend that you wait until your second trimester! The risk of miscarriage is high in the first trimester and even though there is very little evidence that massage can cause a miscarriage - it's not worth the risk to mother and baby at this very delicate stage of conception. It's best to wait until your second trimester and get a doctor's approval.
- More about Prenatal massage: No deep tissue on legs! Best to receive massage in a side-lying position or a semi-reclining position. Nothing in prone (lying face down on your belly) position. Even bolsters designed to accommodate lying face-down during pregnancy put strain on the uterine ligaments and are not recommended.
- From second trimester until birth, massage can be a safe and wonderful experience!
- Tipping:
- Tipping is not a city in China.
- Typically 15-20% of the menu price is customary. If you have received a discounted service, please use the menu price for tipping.
- I have mixed emotions about tipping. I consider myself a health care professional and find tipping in any service industry a gross misconduct on part of the industry itself. Pay us what we are worth. Unfortunately tipping in the service industry is necessary for us to make ends meet. It's not fair, but necessary in this day and age.
- If you found service exceptional and really want to thank your therapist with a little extra, I recommend cash. Cash is king. I also recommend handing it directly to your therapist! I won't explain this one.... it makes me angry. I trust everyone, it's the Devil inside them I don't trust.
- Cell Phones:
- Please turn off your phone before you enter the spa!
- Remember when you had that little machine that took messages for you and you got to them when you got home? Same goes.... remember the good old days! Turn your cell phone off and let them leave a message. This is your 'self-care' time! DISCONNECT!
- Chatty Cathy or Quiet Time:
- Your therapist has been trained in taking cues. If you want to chat and let off some steam, go ahead, we may engage - but we will never judge or proffer advice.
- If you just want to chill and zone out - we'll get the message. Aum diggy.
- Your comfort levels... "suffering in silence":
- BIGGEST MISCONCEPTION - it has to hurt to feel better- right? UM, NO! If it hurts and is out of your comfort level - TELL YOUR THERAPIST!
- If you are cold - TELL YOUR THERAPIST!
- If you don't like the music - TELL YOUR THERAPIST!
- If you have questions about other modalities: hot stone, acupuncture, reflexology, facials, cupping, thai massage, etc.... - ASK YOUR THERAPIST!
This little post is all about 'Awareness' - again, it seems that Common Sense isn't so common these days. Respect the people around you and respect yourself. A little common Courtesy goes a long way.
You are beautiful.
Namaste~ Hope